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Do you just want to chat with?(For example: I am looking for a cultured man between 32-45 who is a Christian, attends church, college educated, and is into opera and gallery hopping bla bla bla). (Example: Seeking a down to earth gal between 22-30 that likes the country, camping, country music, country dancing and NASCAR). Don't say that you are looking for the love of your life and want to get married and make puppies....this will scare a lot of people away. Its good idea to state the general type of person you are hoping to meet and type of relationship you seek, but don't overdo it. If you set down too many requirements you will miss out on the opportunity to meet some great people, and quite possibly the one that is just right for you. How to search for a decent match: Each matchmaking system has different ways of searching for compatible profiles. Some have several ways. Typically these are MATCH, SEARCH, FIND, and some allow you to make a Search Profile that you can reuse. You can search by location, ideal height and weight, ethnic background -- even by interest in having kids in the future. A high percentage on a multiple choice match is a good start but read the answers and look at the essay. The percentages may be great but then the profile might be someone who sounds desperate and lonely, is someone just looking for sex or has totally different interests and values. If there is a photo, look at the photo and remember that the photo can be one taken yesterday or 5 years ago. Unless the person is down right unappealing, remember that amateur/family photos don't always make a person look their best. Look for profiles that match your ideal characteristics but also hit you the right way -- do the writers sound funny? Intellectual? Love animals as much as you do? Like to travel? Creating Personal Ads and Profiles that WorkCreating a great ad means selling your strengths and attributes. Think of this as creating your personal resume. 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People looking at your profile want to know you have time for them. Focusing on your children and their activities can give the impression that you will have limited time. Top | More Dating Tips  Reviews Main Page | International Dating | Ethnic Singles | Senior Personals | Specific Interests Religious Singles | Totally Free Personals | Singles Site Directory | All Dating Sites | Date Regions |
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